Exhausted trying to make a relationship work? Finally discover calm and clarity with Dr. Nakumbe’s signature approach to couples coaching.

Together, we’ll make it make sense

Since 1988, I’ve helped tens of thousands of people find greater understanding of themselves and others - drawing on multiple degrees and decades of vast clinical and forensic experience. The work I do as a coach is always about helping you finally feel heard, understood, and validated - no matter your story, race, sexual orientation, gender identity, or background.

Think of me like a translator – here to help you say what you’ve been trying to say for so long and a partner in making your life’s struggles and traumas make sense.

I’ve personally survived so many such experiences and that is why I use empathy, kindness, humor, and honesty to lead you through those tough and sensitive conversations without judgment or shame. So, if you are exhausted from trying to make things work, let’s help you get some much-needed Relationship Relief™.

Efficient, Powerful Couples Coaching program

Quickly reveal the root causes of relationship issues and gain the clarity you need to grow forward toward calmer, happier lives (together or apart)

  • Dr. Nakumbe’s known for getting to the heart of the problem and helping you make sense of them - fast. Clients share they feel immense relief and clarity about their long-held relationship issues from the very first session of this experience.

  • With Dr. Nakumbe’s support, make a real plan for moving forward to your calmest lives, whether you choose to stay together or separate.

  • In this unique, streamlined 3-half day couples session experience, Dr. Nakumbe will lead you through his 3-step intensive Relationship Relief™ process - so you finally feel confident about how to move forward in both your life and relationship:

    1. Define the Problem

      Identify Feelings vs. Facts

    2. Identify Possible Causal Factors

      Identify the Root Causes

    3. Recommend & Implement Solutions

  • As part of this experience or in ala carte sessions, discover and discuss any potential future problems in your relationship. Dr. Nakumbe’s proven, well-researched process of your “Relationship Psychological DNA” will help you and your partner fully understand each other - raising your awareness of the potential of future conflicts and how to navigate them.

    When you’re equipped with this clear insight, both you and your partner can approach your relationship in healthier ways, with enhanced mindfulness, increased empathy, active listening, improved communication, and more.

  • Throughout his career and within his practice, Dr. Nakumbe (he/him) welcomes all adults, regardless of sexual identity, gender identity, racial identity, disability, relationship type, or background. You are welcome here.

    • Your experience can be hosted virtually from anywhere in the world, or in-person, near Edina, Minnesota

    • The Relationship Relief™ Experience starts at $3000, with payment plans available.

    • Couple’s Private Sessions (90 mins) are available for $350 per session.

    • Individual Private Sessions (50 mins) are available for $250 per session.

    • Relationship Psychological DNA (120 mins) Premarital Consultation) sessions are available outside of a coaching program for a $500 investment.

    • Get started with either option by setting up a free consultation directly with Dr. Nakumbe.

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“Dr. Nakumbe has a gift of knowing what to say to guide or help the people around him. He really makes a difference. I so enjoy the way he coaches using humor, empathy, kindness, sternness - knowing which one of those to choose at any point in time. I’m not sure he can even appreciate the gifts the way we can.”

— private client

“I’m forever grateful for our time and talks together.
A true turning point in my life.”

— private client